Kourtney Kardashian Comes Out As An Autosexual

In 2020, over at Poosh, the 44-year-old reality TV sensation shared some thoughts in a piece cleverly titled ‘Are you low key autosexual?’

Here, she pondered if it’s possible that many of us, herself included, might find ourselves somewhere on the autosexuality spectrum.

Just in case the term is new to you, autosexuality is when someone finds themselves more attracted to their own being than to others.

It’s a scenario where the idea of self-pleasure, like masturbation, might be more appealing than sexual activities with a partner.

Kourtney Kardashian allegedly came out as autosexual back in 2020.Credit: Axelle/Bauer-Griffin/FilmMagic/Getty

Kourtney, along with therapist and QueerSexTherapy founder Casey Tanner, dives into what it means to be autosexual, describing it as getting a buzz from your own erotic vibe.

“While masturbation is the most obvious example, autosexuality may extend beyond sexual behavior to include feeling a longing or desire for oneself,” Tanner detailed in the article.

“It can also be the ability to turn oneself on through looking at, visualizing, touching, or smelling oneself.”

Tanner also stressed that autosexuality is not a one-size-fits-all label; it’s more of a sliding scale.

“Like most human characteristics, autosexuality is a spectrum – and the majority of us are on it! Some may identify as exclusively autosexual, in which case they might consider autosexuality their sexual orientation.”

“Most people, however, incorporate autosexuality into a larger sexual repertoire that also includes being turned on by partnered sex,” Tanner said.

The piece went further, listing everyday actions that could spark self-attraction, such as slipping into some fancy lingerie for your own pleasure, doing your hair and makeup just because, or even the act of washing yourself with extra care and affection.

Kourtney Kardashian detailed little things one could do to feel “turned on” by themselves.Credit: Gotham/WireImage/Getty

“If feeling sexy independent of someone else has ever turned you on, that’s autosexuality, and it’s totally normal,” the Kardashian added.

Exploring the notion further, Tanner talked about how tuning into oneself can shift us into a whole new “sensual headspace.”

“When we look at or fantasize about ourselves, we are in touch with our bodies and senses,” she stated.

She clarified: “Getting turned on by oneself does not mean you think you’re better than other people, that you’re selfish, or that you’re not attracted to your partner(s).”

“Rather, it’s one additional tool in your box for sparking desire and passion.”

Kourtney Kardashian married Travis Barker back in 2022.Credit: Kevin Mazur/VF22/WireImage/Vanity Fair)

The article wrapped up with a call to embrace self-enjoyment without guilt, presenting it as a form of self-love rather than narcissism.

And honestly, it’s a perspective I’m starting to appreciate.

Kourtney herself seems to embody the idea that one can appreciate their own allure while still thriving in a loving and committed relationship, as seen with her husband, Travis Barker.

The couple recently celebrated a new addition to their family, welcoming their first child together, Rocky, and sharing adorable snapshots on Instagram.

The photos show the happy family dressed in black, snuggling up with baby Rocky in both group and solo shots, captioned simply with “ROCKY” and a black heart emoji.

Kourtney, who is also mom to Penelope Scotland, Reign Aston, and Mason Dash from her previous relationship with Scott Disick, seems to balance her family life beautifully.

Meanwhile, Barker brings his own kids, Alabama Luella and Landon, plus stepdaughter Atiana De La Hoya from his marriage to Shanna Moakler, into the blended family mix.